"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sh1t test or is she really jealous?

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This girl showed mixed signals.
Build rapport last time I saw her at the bus station and she seemed to open up to me.

She loves to sing, yesterday I was at a party and there was a band with a girl singing, she asked me to make a video of the band and send it to her, I did.

text convo:

me: and what do u think?
her: she sings very good
me: think you can do better haha?
her: oh your impressed of her ?
her: :)
me: yup shes good
her: oh why don't you ask her number then
me: haha shes not my type
her: sure she is
her: you both can sing great ( i sended her a voice over of me last week, i cant sing just for fun)
her: you both fit perfect
me: haha joker..

U guys think she's sh1t testing me or actually jealous?
btw: she doens't initiate much contact, im just gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do u mean bro? Answering like no worries babe i got u! Lol i would never replie that
 
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LOL

TheGambino said:
This girl showed mixed signals.
Build rapport last time I saw her at the bus station and she seemed to open up to me.

She loves to sing, yesterday I was at a party and there was a band with a girl singing, she asked me to make a video of the band and send it to her, I did.

text convo:

me: and what do u think?
her: she sings very good
me: think you can do better haha?
her: oh your impressed of her ?
her: :)
me: yup shes good
her: oh why don't you ask her number then
me: haha shes not my type
her: sure she is
her: you both can sing great ( i sended her a voice over of me last week, i cant sing just for fun)
her: you both fit perfect
me: You know what, you convinced me

U guys think she's sh1t testing me or actually jealous?
btw: she doens't initiate much contact, im just gonna wait a couple of days and ask her out.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheGambino said:
What do u mean bro? Answering like no worries babe i got u! Lol i would never replie that
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No. A lot of guys take a women's sh1t test seriously and try to "explain" their way out with logic. You didnt fall into the trap.
 
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