Milano
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No, ur willy gets on well with her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sh*tty condoms again!!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Masculinity
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It's definitely going to be more than £6 to raise a child if she gets pregnant.My gf wants marriage, kids etc. Not right now (she has other things going on atm) This week i told her that i'm not ready for kids or marriage yet.
She isn't taking any contraceptive. Now to be honest, we have been having unprotected sex for a while, but now since I've told her that i'm not yet ready for kids, she is wanting me to wear a condomI'm not paying £6 for 6 condoms, id rather go without.
I can see this being a problem because she dose'nt want me pulling out & I don't want to wear a condom.
Rainman4707
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This looks like it could be leading to a big problem.
She is insisting i put plastic on & I wont = no sex. 4-6 weeks now with no sex.
Do I withdraw attention? Any advice?
She is insisting i put plastic on & I wont = no sex. 4-6 weeks now with no sex.
Do I withdraw attention? Any advice?
sazc
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she's not the female for you, move on and find another female
She wants a kid and you are an acceptable to her sperm donor. Any more questions ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rainman4707
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Thanks for reply. You're probably right, but like I say love is a funny thing. I wonder how many members on here can say they love their GF or partner wife/husband/fianace??
How many people have been with someone they were'nt sure about, then ended up loving them.
Great hamstering action on display there…
She's betting on the One time youre horny enough to not wrap it vs. her fertility cycle.
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