"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sh*tty condoms again!!

Milano

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My gut tells me that me & her wont work out, but I still think there is a chance for us because we get on so well. Love is a funny thing. My gut might be right, but i'm not willing to throw the towel in yet. I wont finish with her if I still think there is a chance for us.
No, ur willy gets on well with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My gf wants marriage, kids etc. Not right now (she has other things going on atm) This week i told her that i'm not ready for kids or marriage yet.

She isn't taking any contraceptive. Now to be honest, we have been having unprotected sex for a while, but now since I've told her that i'm not yet ready for kids, she is wanting me to wear a condom :( I'm not paying £6 for 6 condoms, id rather go without.

I can see this being a problem because she dose'nt want me pulling out & I don't want to wear a condom.
It's definitely going to be more than £6 to raise a child if she gets pregnant.
 

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This looks like it could be leading to a big problem.
She is insisting i put plastic on & I wont = no sex. 4-6 weeks now with no sex.

Do I withdraw attention? Any advice?
 

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This looks like it could be leading to a big problem.
She is insisting i put plastic on & I wont = no sex. 4-6 weeks now with no sex.

Do I withdraw attention? Any advice?
she's not the female for you, move on and find another female
 

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This looks like it could be leading to a big problem.
She is insisting i put plastic on & I wont = no sex. 4-6 weeks now with no sex.

Do I withdraw attention? Any advice?
She wants a kid and you are an acceptable to her sperm donor. Any more questions ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rainman4707

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You really think you are gonna last a life time with a woman who you don't love? It's hard enough to last a lifetime with a woman you do love.
Thanks for reply. You're probably right, but like I say love is a funny thing. I wonder how many members on here can say they love their GF or partner wife/husband/fianace??

How many people have been with someone they were'nt sure about, then ended up loving them.
 

Billtx49

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Thanks for reply. You're probably right, but like I say love is a funny thing. I wonder how many members on here can say they love their GF or partner wife/husband/fianace??

How many people have been with someone they were'nt sure about, then ended up loving them.
Great hamstering action on display there…
She's betting on the One time youre horny enough to not wrap it vs. her fertility cycle.
 
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Tell that woman to get the Nuva ring or another easy form of contraception.
 
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