"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sh!t test...passed?

papawapa

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Was talking on the phone with main plate earlier...

She tells me she has something to tell me. She is all apprehensive and alludes to the fact that she has a FWB. She told me that he had contacted her today and she turned him down. Admits that it was because she is really into me.

I tell her its no big deal. Lots of people have them nowadays. Thank her for being honest.

Then she says something about me being quiet. I tell her that I have a question related to what she just told me. I said, "If we get serious and in a committed relationship how important is this friendship? Its obvious that you would stop sleeping with him, but would you remain friends?"

Her answer was, "No. I dont think it would be right to stay friends with someone that I was sleeping with. I would stop talking to him."

I told her that was the right answer.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VladPatton

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Good question, and she answered right. You may yourself a keeper here. Good luck!
 

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She is testing you....I had a gf who every once in a while would tell me that so and so try contacting her but she did not return the calls. I use to just ignore her and never showed any signs of jealousy which drove her up the walls. Abe
 
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