"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sh!t test...passed?

papawapa

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Was talking on the phone with main plate earlier...

She tells me she has something to tell me. She is all apprehensive and alludes to the fact that she has a FWB. She told me that he had contacted her today and she turned him down. Admits that it was because she is really into me.

I tell her its no big deal. Lots of people have them nowadays. Thank her for being honest.

Then she says something about me being quiet. I tell her that I have a question related to what she just told me. I said, "If we get serious and in a committed relationship how important is this friendship? Its obvious that you would stop sleeping with him, but would you remain friends?"

Her answer was, "No. I dont think it would be right to stay friends with someone that I was sleeping with. I would stop talking to him."

I told her that was the right answer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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VladPatton

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Good question, and she answered right. You may yourself a keeper here. Good luck!
 

abe0

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She is testing you....I had a gf who every once in a while would tell me that so and so try contacting her but she did not return the calls. I use to just ignore her and never showed any signs of jealousy which drove her up the walls. Abe
 
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