"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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papawapa

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Was talking on the phone with main plate earlier...

She tells me she has something to tell me. She is all apprehensive and alludes to the fact that she has a FWB. She told me that he had contacted her today and she turned him down. Admits that it was because she is really into me.

I tell her its no big deal. Lots of people have them nowadays. Thank her for being honest.

Then she says something about me being quiet. I tell her that I have a question related to what she just told me. I said, "If we get serious and in a committed relationship how important is this friendship? Its obvious that you would stop sleeping with him, but would you remain friends?"

Her answer was, "No. I dont think it would be right to stay friends with someone that I was sleeping with. I would stop talking to him."

I told her that was the right answer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VladPatton

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Good question, and she answered right. You may yourself a keeper here. Good luck!
 

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She is testing you....I had a gf who every once in a while would tell me that so and so try contacting her but she did not return the calls. I use to just ignore her and never showed any signs of jealousy which drove her up the walls. Abe
 
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