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Senior Don Juan
Do you guys believe that women are entirely sexual creatures ?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
More so than just sexual, but sexuality comes with strong emotions.smooth guy said:I'd call them more of emotional creatures.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It is their emotions we guys hate and their sexuality we loveGrand Wizzard Alamar said:More so than just sexual, but sexuality comes with strong emotions.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lol I didn't literally mean coax her to have sex. I meant that sometimes it takes some effort to get a girl to let loose a little on her inhibitions because society has blown up sex to be a huge thing when it's just a part of regular every day life.BluEyes said:That mentality of "coax a girl to have sex" is all wrong, and gives me a sick feeling even to think about.
Rather, think of it as not trying to set off the alarm or *****-shield.
You should be trying to convey that you aren't an idiot, and that you aren't going to rape or use/abuse her.