"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you guys believe that women are entirely sexual creatures ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes.
 

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I'd call them more of emotional creatures.
 

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smooth guy said:
I'd call them more of emotional creatures.
More so than just sexual, but sexuality comes with strong emotions.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
More so than just sexual, but sexuality comes with strong emotions.
It is their emotions we guys hate and their sexuality we love :p
 

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Total Nymphos

From you're nun to you're freakest porn star

EVERY chick is thinking about dik, most guys don't see it because of the social conditioning and plus them judging women on sex. So they tend to act hard to get to seem high value. As a result they never get to experience or find out how wild women are.

Now I was never judgmental in my life because I always knew every woman give head, so I never in my LIFE called a woman a slut. With that said learning the game and hanging out with a group of lesbians...

- They love dik
- They think about sex CONSTANTLY
- They have better imagination when it comes to sex
- Women have insane fanatasies and some of them guys would either be turned off or think that she is wierd

The one that has me doing a full smile is when girl's tell me they want to get drenched in the face. (Were not even having sex were just sitting in a public area and she is talking about that)

I also do a lot of sexual inneundo and women always laugh and just love the statements. I used to think I was a sex addict but I think the average chick thinks about sex more than me and sex is probably on my mind 95% of the time.
 

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not true for everyone. It really depends on what they want, and some women are strange and want other things.. lol
 

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It's all about breaking through the emotions to turn her sexuality into a wild beast raging out of her.
 

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Every human being's sole purpose on this planet is to reproduce, become the most dominant species and uphold that rank. We are all by nature sex addicts, it's in our genetics. Sometimes it just takes a little coaxing to get a woman to release the lust within.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That mentality of "coax a girl to have sex" is all wrong, and gives me a sick feeling even to think about.


Rather, think of it as not trying to set off the alarm or *****-shield.

You should be trying to convey that you aren't an idiot, and that you aren't going to rape or use/abuse her.
 

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BluEyes said:
That mentality of "coax a girl to have sex" is all wrong, and gives me a sick feeling even to think about.


Rather, think of it as not trying to set off the alarm or *****-shield.

You should be trying to convey that you aren't an idiot, and that you aren't going to rape or use/abuse her.
Lol I didn't literally mean coax her to have sex. I meant that sometimes it takes some effort to get a girl to let loose a little on her inhibitions because society has blown up sex to be a huge thing when it's just a part of regular every day life.
 

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This is stupid, of course girls are sexual. Every person on the earth shares the same instinctive desire to reproduce, ala have sex.
 
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