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Senior Don Juan
Do you guys believe that women are entirely sexual creatures ?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
More so than just sexual, but sexuality comes with strong emotions.smooth guy said:I'd call them more of emotional creatures.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It is their emotions we guys hate and their sexuality we loveGrand Wizzard Alamar said:More so than just sexual, but sexuality comes with strong emotions.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lol I didn't literally mean coax her to have sex. I meant that sometimes it takes some effort to get a girl to let loose a little on her inhibitions because society has blown up sex to be a huge thing when it's just a part of regular every day life.BluEyes said:That mentality of "coax a girl to have sex" is all wrong, and gives me a sick feeling even to think about.
Rather, think of it as not trying to set off the alarm or *****-shield.
You should be trying to convey that you aren't an idiot, and that you aren't going to rape or use/abuse her.