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What are you talking to her on? Is this through text messenger? Did you meet her on a dating site? How long has she been quiet for? Did you double text when she didn't reply?

I am not good with text communication. I am not good at escalating things through text. I don't like text messaging in general and try to keep it short and to the point. Usually I take the mindset of texting to get the girl out as quick as possible. I don't understand how people can build rapport through text. With the lock downs going on, perhaps this strategy needs to change.

Members like @stormrider have preached that if you are high enough value, it doesn't matter what you do and say. How do you communicate value through text?
Through facebook messaging, actually met her on a dating site years ago when I was traveling. She always randomly hits me up, and expresses interest. I barely have any interest in her to be honest which is why I experimented saying that. Found it interesting she got quiet... maybe they just don't always know what to say though lol

Calibrated subcommunication/subtext/reading in-between-the-lines/innuendo is everything.
I guess I'll just stick to not talking about it and just escalate physically when given the opportunity.
 

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I guess I'll just stick to not talking about it and just escalate physically when given the opportunity.
A possibility is that she got quiet because she went into trance.

The topic is worthy of discussion and a useful skill to develop.
 

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Never too early my friend.. as I always say.. it's far better to shoot your shot and get rejected, then be the guy who is too scared to make a move. Everyone has different style of "game", but I would classify mine as being "unapologetically sexual". Not to the point where it comes off as pervy, but I paint the picture of a man who knows exactly what he wants from his women.. and they either get with the program, or kick rocks.

You'd actually be very surprised how many woman start to come to YOU, once you start projecting an outwardly sexual personality.

Everything in moderation though.. and never force anything. Guys who have a shy and timid personality, this will probably not work.
 

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Never too early my friend.. as I always say.. it's far better to shoot your shot and get rejected, then be the guy who is too scared to make a move. Everyone has different style of "game", but I would classify mine as being "unapologetically sexual". Not to the point where it comes off as pervy, but I paint the picture of a man who knows exactly what he wants from his women.. and they either get with the program, or kick rocks.

You'd actually be very surprised how many woman start to come to YOU, once you start projecting an outwardly sexual personality.

Everything in moderation though.. and never force anything. Guys who have a shy and timid personality, this will probably not work.
Examples of some of the things you say and the setting you are in please..
 

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Examples of some of the things you say and the setting you are in please..
An example would be any sort of sexual innuendo.. I guess the most popular one would be "netflix and chill", although I think this is extremely cheesy, but it's one of those things where the girl knows exactly what you mean.

For instance, with my most recent plate we had a whole discussion about how many calories you lose during sex. When I say, I need to "work out with you again", she knows I mean sex.

I also send random memes that I think are funny. (This is just my style that I've developed over the years)

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I send random **** like this to my plates, and they think it's hilarious. Some might say it's "childish", but it works for me, because I already have a dark and fvcked up sense of humor, so they just begin to expect it from me. Even if you send them a completely perverted meme, if you do it with proper timing, she will still see it as "aww, he was thinking about me" (don't ask me why it makes sense.. it just does)

You can also read my most recent Lay Report with a few more examples. I probably break the rules and give way more compliments than I should, but I never miss an opportunity to let a woman know I think she is hot or sexy. I think way too many guys over think this and are afraid of looking "needy" etc.. I just project myself as a strong, confident, and sexual male and it works for me. I'm ok with giving out a compliment and a girl rejecting me, that is fine. More girls are receptive to my compliments and sexual advances than the ones who don't. I think guys need to stop being so afraid of rejection. It happens.

I think the key here with my strategy is when I say something sexual, I often add something comedic to it. I'm able to get the girl to laugh and break the ice, while also planting that "seed" in the back of her mind. Trust me, once you start projecting yourself in this kind of manner, girls will start coming to you, and often initiating the sex talk.. they feel comfortable talking to you.

Oh, and most importantly.. NO SLVT shaming! You can think whatever you want inside your own head.. but never outwardly project negative thoughts about womans sexuality. The key here is to make them feel comfortable about being sexual around you.

I hope that clears things up a bit.. let me know if I need to elaborate further.
 
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An example would be any sort of sexual innuendo.. I guess the most popular one would be "netflix and chill", although I think this is extremely cheesy, but it's one of those things where the girl knows exactly what you mean.
I remember thinking this was a slick move until some girl called me out on it.... She's like we all know what that really means... I was seriously surprised... I figured the movie would be a good ploy but didn't realize how universally this was known as let's smash haha

but damn you don't mess around with your talk or your pics lol Curious but how soon into your courtship do you start this kind of talk? Like lets say you get a girl's # at what point do you bring this stuff in? I'd imagine you have some G rated texting/ talk first?
 

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In my opinion and experiences in talking with girls is that they get sex talk from most guys, especially online. This doesn't separate yourself out from others and can often be a turn-off. Especially if they were really attracted to you initially.

Logically, you should crawl before you walk. What I mean by that is what's the point in talking about sex if you haven't even met her? The real life attraction may never be there. Personally I would hold off any sex talk until you actually go on a date with her and things seem to be going well. It's very different talking about it in person vs online. Plus they can't just block you or take hours/days to respond to you when sex talk is brought up in real life.

What's worked for me generally and it would depend on their intellect and age, is to see how well the first in-person date goes and if there seems to be a connection there, maybe start off on either talking lightly about religion or politics(you can just bs this part if you don't wanna stir up anything) and then say to them that you already started on one taboo topic(religion, politics, sex) so might as well talk about the other two. This leads to a good and natural transition into talking about sex to gauge her interest in it and see if she's a prude or not early on.
 
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