"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sportf190

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hey guys im 17 and im having a problem keeping it up during sexual intercorse.... it seems to not be hard enough and i dont know what is causing this because i masterbated like 36 hours before and im still having an erection problem and then when i dont have the problem and we bang i can only last like 4- 5 minutes even less when we go hard?? any advice
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're having temporary impotence. A friend of mine had the same problem. He waited it out. He's fine now.

By the way, this should be in the H&F section. A mod will relocate it as soon as possible.
 
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yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by sportf190
yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
Well, I guess, everyone is different. Don't masturbate before sex.

But the best thing to do would be to visit, or speak with, your doctor. They are medical professionals, and they will advise you to fix your problem -- do not be embarrassed.

You have the option of being an embarrassing bad lover, or take an "embarrassing" visit to your doctor.

No one here can really help you with your current circumstance.

Sorry, and good luck.
 
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