"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sportf190

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hey guys im 17 and im having a problem keeping it up during sexual intercorse.... it seems to not be hard enough and i dont know what is causing this because i masterbated like 36 hours before and im still having an erection problem and then when i dont have the problem and we bang i can only last like 4- 5 minutes even less when we go hard?? any advice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're having temporary impotence. A friend of mine had the same problem. He waited it out. He's fine now.

By the way, this should be in the H&F section. A mod will relocate it as soon as possible.
 
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yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by sportf190
yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
Well, I guess, everyone is different. Don't masturbate before sex.

But the best thing to do would be to visit, or speak with, your doctor. They are medical professionals, and they will advise you to fix your problem -- do not be embarrassed.

You have the option of being an embarrassing bad lover, or take an "embarrassing" visit to your doctor.

No one here can really help you with your current circumstance.

Sorry, and good luck.
 
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