"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sportf190

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hey guys im 17 and im having a problem keeping it up during sexual intercorse.... it seems to not be hard enough and i dont know what is causing this because i masterbated like 36 hours before and im still having an erection problem and then when i dont have the problem and we bang i can only last like 4- 5 minutes even less when we go hard?? any advice
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're having temporary impotence. A friend of mine had the same problem. He waited it out. He's fine now.

By the way, this should be in the H&F section. A mod will relocate it as soon as possible.
 
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sportf190

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yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by sportf190
yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
Well, I guess, everyone is different. Don't masturbate before sex.

But the best thing to do would be to visit, or speak with, your doctor. They are medical professionals, and they will advise you to fix your problem -- do not be embarrassed.

You have the option of being an embarrassing bad lover, or take an "embarrassing" visit to your doctor.

No one here can really help you with your current circumstance.

Sorry, and good luck.
 
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