"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey guys im 17 and im having a problem keeping it up during sexual intercorse.... it seems to not be hard enough and i dont know what is causing this because i masterbated like 36 hours before and im still having an erection problem and then when i dont have the problem and we bang i can only last like 4- 5 minutes even less when we go hard?? any advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're having temporary impotence. A friend of mine had the same problem. He waited it out. He's fine now.

By the way, this should be in the H&F section. A mod will relocate it as soon as possible.
 
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yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by sportf190
yes buti had problems like this sometimes with my other ex but it was only when i masterbated a lil before sex
Well, I guess, everyone is different. Don't masturbate before sex.

But the best thing to do would be to visit, or speak with, your doctor. They are medical professionals, and they will advise you to fix your problem -- do not be embarrassed.

You have the option of being an embarrassing bad lover, or take an "embarrassing" visit to your doctor.

No one here can really help you with your current circumstance.

Sorry, and good luck.
 
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