"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now, please don't flame me, I know I have been an idiot but in the past 6 months, three of the women I have slept with, I have done so without protection. Not on purpose, it just turned out like that and it is stupid and I normally use protection but there is nothing I can do about it now. I don't have any symptoms or anything but I have heard that you can pick up some things which are underlying in your system so I feel I should have a check-up to make sure that everything is ok.

Anyone here been for these tests? What do they do? Is it painful?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You should get tested regularly, I do every three months or every 10 girls, whichever comes first.

You're probably fine. The blood tests for HIV, gonnorhea and syphilis are easy. If you want to test for chlamydia, they stick a swab up your peehole. I don't recommend it. Unless it hurts to pee, then you probably don't have to worry about it.

As for HPV and it's millions of strains. There's no way to test or vaccinate men for HPV. They also cannot treat warts or herpes unless you have an outbreak. Genital warts and herpes can lay dormant in your system for months before an outbreak occurs, but when it does, it's fairly easy to treat.

Get tested anyway. It's a good idea. Also, be open and honest with the chicks you sleep with. If they're getting tested regularly too, having unprotected sex isn't the worst thing.
 
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most tests are done by drawing blood and sending it off to a lab, or peeing in a cup and sending it off to a lab.
go get tested and after that make sure you protect yourself.
the endless worries will stop after that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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