“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AlanB

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Now, please don't flame me, I know I have been an idiot but in the past 6 months, three of the women I have slept with, I have done so without protection. Not on purpose, it just turned out like that and it is stupid and I normally use protection but there is nothing I can do about it now. I don't have any symptoms or anything but I have heard that you can pick up some things which are underlying in your system so I feel I should have a check-up to make sure that everything is ok.

Anyone here been for these tests? What do they do? Is it painful?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You should get tested regularly, I do every three months or every 10 girls, whichever comes first.

You're probably fine. The blood tests for HIV, gonnorhea and syphilis are easy. If you want to test for chlamydia, they stick a swab up your peehole. I don't recommend it. Unless it hurts to pee, then you probably don't have to worry about it.

As for HPV and it's millions of strains. There's no way to test or vaccinate men for HPV. They also cannot treat warts or herpes unless you have an outbreak. Genital warts and herpes can lay dormant in your system for months before an outbreak occurs, but when it does, it's fairly easy to treat.

Get tested anyway. It's a good idea. Also, be open and honest with the chicks you sleep with. If they're getting tested regularly too, having unprotected sex isn't the worst thing.
 

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most tests are done by drawing blood and sending it off to a lab, or peeing in a cup and sending it off to a lab.
go get tested and after that make sure you protect yourself.
the endless worries will stop after that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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