"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now, please don't flame me, I know I have been an idiot but in the past 6 months, three of the women I have slept with, I have done so without protection. Not on purpose, it just turned out like that and it is stupid and I normally use protection but there is nothing I can do about it now. I don't have any symptoms or anything but I have heard that you can pick up some things which are underlying in your system so I feel I should have a check-up to make sure that everything is ok.

Anyone here been for these tests? What do they do? Is it painful?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You should get tested regularly, I do every three months or every 10 girls, whichever comes first.

You're probably fine. The blood tests for HIV, gonnorhea and syphilis are easy. If you want to test for chlamydia, they stick a swab up your peehole. I don't recommend it. Unless it hurts to pee, then you probably don't have to worry about it.

As for HPV and it's millions of strains. There's no way to test or vaccinate men for HPV. They also cannot treat warts or herpes unless you have an outbreak. Genital warts and herpes can lay dormant in your system for months before an outbreak occurs, but when it does, it's fairly easy to treat.

Get tested anyway. It's a good idea. Also, be open and honest with the chicks you sleep with. If they're getting tested regularly too, having unprotected sex isn't the worst thing.
 
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most tests are done by drawing blood and sending it off to a lab, or peeing in a cup and sending it off to a lab.
go get tested and after that make sure you protect yourself.
the endless worries will stop after that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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