"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sexual Harrassment?

neobrood

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I heard my mom and brother talkin...

mom said a woman can cry sexual harrassment if you touch her arms without ASKING PERMISSION from the woman.

Just where is the region for "sexual harrassment"? I understand that its if you go for the breasts or pu$$y IMMEDIATELY or too early.

DJ bible and other "seduction manuals" talk about kino... You do it on her hands or the back of the arms... I think it also says something bout touching her back or touchin her ass.

They never say anything on touching breasts or pu$$y...

So... is that another piece of AFC advice? Pls enlighten me on this. I dont wanna get into trouble with the law... :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sexual harassment is defined as repeated sexual advances beyond a woman's request to stop. So as long you don't try something that a woman already asked you not to do, you should be ok.
 

Jvesti

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My mom did this to me at an early age and it socially stifled me with girls when I was hittin puberty. I was afraid to touch them or make a comment.

Sexual Harrassment is bull****. It's feminist bull**** to own us as men. We are supposed to be aggressive and make sexual advances. "Hey baby" *whistling* "nice tits" there is nothing inherently evil about saying anything like that if you think about it. But it does limit a mans power, it limits a man from being a man and speaking what's on his mind.
 

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and ooh... my mom just saw me say hi and do some smiling and talkin to some hot waitresses...

She later on told me why I'm too aggressive... pfft...

So u think I should be AFC when she's around?

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And uugh... I remembered her talkin to my teachers when i was young... about me being bullied and all. She totally clueless... bout her way of bringin me up that turned me into a waaayyyy below average afc. I swear... I'm prolly the MOST AFC person here when I first came to this board. So I have a lot of healing to do... :( A lot of practice... :)

When I reached high school, she was totally clueless why I hated the world so much. She had no idea why i was a f*kkin hater...

And now, I'm acting "strange" and "too aggressive"... and that I'd never ever succeed with women with this kind of attitude I call "don juan"... :D
 

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Tell ur mom her advice is nice and all but it leads to you being thought of as a nice guy and marriage material when you turn 38 and YOU WANT SOME ASS and aren't going to repress your sexuality!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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