"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sexual Harrassment?

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I heard my mom and brother talkin...

mom said a woman can cry sexual harrassment if you touch her arms without ASKING PERMISSION from the woman.

Just where is the region for "sexual harrassment"? I understand that its if you go for the breasts or pu$$y IMMEDIATELY or too early.

DJ bible and other "seduction manuals" talk about kino... You do it on her hands or the back of the arms... I think it also says something bout touching her back or touchin her ass.

They never say anything on touching breasts or pu$$y...

So... is that another piece of AFC advice? Pls enlighten me on this. I dont wanna get into trouble with the law... :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual harassment is defined as repeated sexual advances beyond a woman's request to stop. So as long you don't try something that a woman already asked you not to do, you should be ok.
 
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My mom did this to me at an early age and it socially stifled me with girls when I was hittin puberty. I was afraid to touch them or make a comment.

Sexual Harrassment is bull****. It's feminist bull**** to own us as men. We are supposed to be aggressive and make sexual advances. "Hey baby" *whistling* "nice tits" there is nothing inherently evil about saying anything like that if you think about it. But it does limit a mans power, it limits a man from being a man and speaking what's on his mind.
 
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and ooh... my mom just saw me say hi and do some smiling and talkin to some hot waitresses...

She later on told me why I'm too aggressive... pfft...

So u think I should be AFC when she's around?

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And uugh... I remembered her talkin to my teachers when i was young... about me being bullied and all. She totally clueless... bout her way of bringin me up that turned me into a waaayyyy below average afc. I swear... I'm prolly the MOST AFC person here when I first came to this board. So I have a lot of healing to do... :( A lot of practice... :)

When I reached high school, she was totally clueless why I hated the world so much. She had no idea why i was a f*kkin hater...

And now, I'm acting "strange" and "too aggressive"... and that I'd never ever succeed with women with this kind of attitude I call "don juan"... :D
 
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Tell ur mom her advice is nice and all but it leads to you being thought of as a nice guy and marriage material when you turn 38 and YOU WANT SOME ASS and aren't going to repress your sexuality!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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