Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Zerro

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visions said:
considering birds- female birds are self sufficient in that they don't need a male to survive. hence, it may be that males are flamboyant because they are the ones depending on females-to satisfy sexual urge, and hence they must do the chasing...
For most bird species the main reason that the female is so drab is so that she'll be camouflaged while sitting on the nest, otherwise they'd look a lot like the males and some are, like ****atiels, it's difficult to tell the sexes apart. Then you get exceptions like the Eclectus Parrot where the male is plain green while the female is so spectacular that they were originally thought to be different species until a researcher caught the two getting it on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zerro said:
For most bird species the main reason that the female is so drab is so that she'll be camouflaged while sitting on the nest, otherwise they'd look a lot like the males and some are, like ****atiels, it's difficult to tell the sexes apart. Then you get exceptions like the Eclectus Parrot where the male is plain green while the female is so spectacular that they were originally thought to be different species until a researcher caught the two getting it on.
didn't think of that, great response...
in species in which the female is heavily dependent on the male for survival, as in ours, do you think the females are more inclined to aggressively pursue males?
 

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I'm trying to think of a species where the female aggressively pursues the male. Can't. Would be interested to know if there are any.

Usually the gender with the smaller and/or motile gamete (ie., egg vs sperm) does the "pursuing" because that gender generates more gametes and can spew them out with less selectivity.

You may also be interested in researching the fish species which generates three types of male sizes. Look up "sneaker males" and read up on everything you find. It's quite interesting.

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Or this: http://bio.research.ucsc.edu/~barrylab/classes/animal_behavior/MALESS.HTM
 
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