"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexual dimorphism in humans

Zerro

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visions said:
considering birds- female birds are self sufficient in that they don't need a male to survive. hence, it may be that males are flamboyant because they are the ones depending on females-to satisfy sexual urge, and hence they must do the chasing...
For most bird species the main reason that the female is so drab is so that she'll be camouflaged while sitting on the nest, otherwise they'd look a lot like the males and some are, like ****atiels, it's difficult to tell the sexes apart. Then you get exceptions like the Eclectus Parrot where the male is plain green while the female is so spectacular that they were originally thought to be different species until a researcher caught the two getting it on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerro said:
For most bird species the main reason that the female is so drab is so that she'll be camouflaged while sitting on the nest, otherwise they'd look a lot like the males and some are, like ****atiels, it's difficult to tell the sexes apart. Then you get exceptions like the Eclectus Parrot where the male is plain green while the female is so spectacular that they were originally thought to be different species until a researcher caught the two getting it on.
didn't think of that, great response...
in species in which the female is heavily dependent on the male for survival, as in ours, do you think the females are more inclined to aggressively pursue males?
 

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I'm trying to think of a species where the female aggressively pursues the male. Can't. Would be interested to know if there are any.

Usually the gender with the smaller and/or motile gamete (ie., egg vs sperm) does the "pursuing" because that gender generates more gametes and can spew them out with less selectivity.

You may also be interested in researching the fish species which generates three types of male sizes. Look up "sneaker males" and read up on everything you find. It's quite interesting.

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Or this: http://bio.research.ucsc.edu/~barrylab/classes/animal_behavior/MALESS.HTM
 
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