greetings all. i've been lurking here for a few years but never posted (except twice under a different user name). it's time i join 
so here's a topic i'd like to discuss as it may have insights into game-namely which sex must do the chasing, and to what degree.
most of us are aware of sexual dimorphism-male birds tend to be more colorful and prettier than respective females. and male lions are considerably larger (and with a mane) than females.
i find it interesting to analyze human sexual dimorphism in relation to other species. it seems that in humans, women are the more flamboyant sex. i can't think of another species in which this holds true. perhaps there's a link between this and human male-female mating strategy, and understanding this link will provide huge insight on best applying game to females. consider the bird example i just mentioned. why are males the more flamboyant, where as human females are the more flamboyant among humans? this is a reversal and there may be a reason to it.
women depend on men for survival (more so prehistorically) and i don't see that dependency in any other species. perhaps by extensively working on their appearance, they are the ones whom are more vested in seeking mates for their benefit (their own survival) moreso than a man. if this is true, the game concept that you should let women do the chasing is validated.
considering birds- female birds are self sufficient in that they don't need a male to survive. hence, it may be that males are flamboyant because they are the ones depending on females-to satisfy sexual urge, and hence they must do the chasing...
---this is not about fashion advice but about the idea that women should be the chasers as evidenced by the amount of time they put into appearance-----
i look forward to this discussion
so here's a topic i'd like to discuss as it may have insights into game-namely which sex must do the chasing, and to what degree.
most of us are aware of sexual dimorphism-male birds tend to be more colorful and prettier than respective females. and male lions are considerably larger (and with a mane) than females.
i find it interesting to analyze human sexual dimorphism in relation to other species. it seems that in humans, women are the more flamboyant sex. i can't think of another species in which this holds true. perhaps there's a link between this and human male-female mating strategy, and understanding this link will provide huge insight on best applying game to females. consider the bird example i just mentioned. why are males the more flamboyant, where as human females are the more flamboyant among humans? this is a reversal and there may be a reason to it.
women depend on men for survival (more so prehistorically) and i don't see that dependency in any other species. perhaps by extensively working on their appearance, they are the ones whom are more vested in seeking mates for their benefit (their own survival) moreso than a man. if this is true, the game concept that you should let women do the chasing is validated.
considering birds- female birds are self sufficient in that they don't need a male to survive. hence, it may be that males are flamboyant because they are the ones depending on females-to satisfy sexual urge, and hence they must do the chasing...
---this is not about fashion advice but about the idea that women should be the chasers as evidenced by the amount of time they put into appearance-----
i look forward to this discussion
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