"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sexist New Zealand road signs to be changed after 7 y/o girl’s letter

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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“Why does it say ‘LINEMEN’ when the people working on the lines may be men or women?”

CONCERNS voiced by a seven-year-old New Zealand girl regarding “unfair” road signs that exclude women have been heard by the country’s transport authority.

https://www.news.com.au/technology/...r/news-story/e5e7abab262e32caca71675664c8ef73


Are we losing the war to feminism? Lol
Truth always come out of the mouth of kids Lol.

She's is factual.

What does linemen even mean... Use contructionworker! Lol.

Kids are sensible to these things and she does point a fact.... Women are pickup space in the construction/transport business.... So if you see a woman on site... Why use the Word "men"

In the French language, we could say to little girl... When there is a Féminine (female) and Masculin (male)... The male noun takes priority... Thus "linemem" .. You would need to have 2 more women to make it "linewomen".

Where i live people are starting to challenge that.. To have gender neutral words/noun/grammar.. And inclue both male/female noun
 

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This is nonsense. "Man" does not necessarily mean a male, it is also used in the same sense of "mankind".
It could mean a human being. Educate the seven year old instead of bending to her will.
 

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To have gender neutral words/noun/grammar.. And inclue both male/female noun
Let's take it a bit further.
It reminds me of Lindsay Shepherd case in Canada. A case about the state of free speech on university campuses and about labelled a transphobe. It's about using gender pronouns other than “he” or “she" , (regardless of being transgenders.)
She is a teaching assistant who showed her class of first-year undergrads a short video clip featuring controversial University of Toronto professor Jordan Peterson as part of a debate from a public broadcasting show; the self-described leftist who opened up a discussion on the use of gendered pronouns.

Google it if you are not familiar with it, an interesting case to follow up.

In this pace, it looks like New Zeland will have to change all its road signs to include transgender workers as well, They only need one complaining latter from unhappy transgender, Lol
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A case about the state of free speech on university campuses and about labelled a transphobe. It's about using gender pronouns other than “he” or “she"
"It"?
 

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Truth always come out of the mouth of kids Lol.

She's is factual.

What does linemen even mean... Use contructionworker! Lol.

Kids are sensible to these things and she does point a fact.... Women are pickup space in the construction/transport business.... So if you see a woman on site... Why use the Word "men"

In the French language, we could say to little girl... When there is a Féminine (female) and Masculin (male)... The male noun takes priority... Thus "linemem" .. You would need to have 2 more women to make it "linewomen".

Where i live people are starting to challenge that.. To have gender neutral words/noun/grammar.. And inclue both male/female noun
The same reason woman and women have man and men in it...its not sexist, its just how the language is
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The language point is important. The generic use of 'man' serves to show men and women have a common nature.... that man and woman are not irreconcilably different. It is this fundamental difference that leads to ideologies on both sides with their conception of the 'other'.

Two in one, and one in two. Logic stumbles on this, but so much for logic. It is limited.
 

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The same reason woman and women have man and men in it...its not sexist, its just how the language is
It's like the old Bill Cosby joke:
God created Eve, and showed her to Adam.
And he said "Whoa, man!".
 

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The language point is important. The generic use of 'man' serves to show men and women have a common nature.... that man and woman are not irreconcilably different. It is this fundamental difference that leads to ideologies on both sides with their conception of the 'other'.
That silly little b!tch can't even spell the word right. It's supposed to be "womyn," so that womyn never have to even look at those ugly, oppressive, 'EM-EE-EN' letters.
 

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It's like the old Bill Cosby joke:
God created Eve, and showed her to Adam.
And he said "Whoa, man!".
And then he roofied her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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