"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sexist New Zealand road signs to be changed after 7 y/o girl’s letter

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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“Why does it say ‘LINEMEN’ when the people working on the lines may be men or women?”

CONCERNS voiced by a seven-year-old New Zealand girl regarding “unfair” road signs that exclude women have been heard by the country’s transport authority.

https://www.news.com.au/technology/...r/news-story/e5e7abab262e32caca71675664c8ef73


Are we losing the war to feminism? Lol
Truth always come out of the mouth of kids Lol.

She's is factual.

What does linemen even mean... Use contructionworker! Lol.

Kids are sensible to these things and she does point a fact.... Women are pickup space in the construction/transport business.... So if you see a woman on site... Why use the Word "men"

In the French language, we could say to little girl... When there is a Féminine (female) and Masculin (male)... The male noun takes priority... Thus "linemem" .. You would need to have 2 more women to make it "linewomen".

Where i live people are starting to challenge that.. To have gender neutral words/noun/grammar.. And inclue both male/female noun
 

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This is nonsense. "Man" does not necessarily mean a male, it is also used in the same sense of "mankind".
It could mean a human being. Educate the seven year old instead of bending to her will.
 

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To have gender neutral words/noun/grammar.. And inclue both male/female noun
Let's take it a bit further.
It reminds me of Lindsay Shepherd case in Canada. A case about the state of free speech on university campuses and about labelled a transphobe. It's about using gender pronouns other than “he” or “she" , (regardless of being transgenders.)
She is a teaching assistant who showed her class of first-year undergrads a short video clip featuring controversial University of Toronto professor Jordan Peterson as part of a debate from a public broadcasting show; the self-described leftist who opened up a discussion on the use of gendered pronouns.

Google it if you are not familiar with it, an interesting case to follow up.

In this pace, it looks like New Zeland will have to change all its road signs to include transgender workers as well, They only need one complaining latter from unhappy transgender, Lol
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A case about the state of free speech on university campuses and about labelled a transphobe. It's about using gender pronouns other than “he” or “she"
"It"?
 

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Truth always come out of the mouth of kids Lol.

She's is factual.

What does linemen even mean... Use contructionworker! Lol.

Kids are sensible to these things and she does point a fact.... Women are pickup space in the construction/transport business.... So if you see a woman on site... Why use the Word "men"

In the French language, we could say to little girl... When there is a Féminine (female) and Masculin (male)... The male noun takes priority... Thus "linemem" .. You would need to have 2 more women to make it "linewomen".

Where i live people are starting to challenge that.. To have gender neutral words/noun/grammar.. And inclue both male/female noun
The same reason woman and women have man and men in it...its not sexist, its just how the language is
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The language point is important. The generic use of 'man' serves to show men and women have a common nature.... that man and woman are not irreconcilably different. It is this fundamental difference that leads to ideologies on both sides with their conception of the 'other'.

Two in one, and one in two. Logic stumbles on this, but so much for logic. It is limited.
 

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The same reason woman and women have man and men in it...its not sexist, its just how the language is
It's like the old Bill Cosby joke:
God created Eve, and showed her to Adam.
And he said "Whoa, man!".
 

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The language point is important. The generic use of 'man' serves to show men and women have a common nature.... that man and woman are not irreconcilably different. It is this fundamental difference that leads to ideologies on both sides with their conception of the 'other'.
That silly little b!tch can't even spell the word right. It's supposed to be "womyn," so that womyn never have to even look at those ugly, oppressive, 'EM-EE-EN' letters.
 

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It's like the old Bill Cosby joke:
God created Eve, and showed her to Adam.
And he said "Whoa, man!".
And then he roofied her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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