Grover_mister
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well my gf and i want to have sex. she has had it before but i havent and i am ablosutley clueless lol. im not scared just nervous... tips anything plz lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sex....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
just so suave
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haha djdan 
. if you both want to do it, then go for it, unless you feel pressured... then dont do it, wait until your ready.
when you do do it, use protection condoms are best contraception i think
. if you both want to do it, then go for it, unless you feel pressured... then dont do it, wait until your ready.when you do do it, use protection
condoms are best contraception i thinkGrover_mister
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well cna u give me some tips while im actually doing it to make it better for both of us. i dont wanna screw up lol
Yeah, when she says "right there! don't stop!" KEEP DOING WHATEVER YOU'RE DOING!
Some tips: Your first time out isn't going to be your best, sorry pal. You might have a hard time getting it up (hey, we're not machines after all). If this happens to you, masturbate a little. Maybe go down on her as you do it (by now you're probably pretty capable of getting yourself hard with your hands), or talk her into masturbating for you (sorta kinky, and it'll tell you what part of her vagina's most sensitive, typically).
Also, lots and lots of foreplay. You've got to get her juices flowing, and foreplay will help. I'd have some lube and lots of condoms lying around for all of the "what if"s, though.
Hmm...what else? Ask her how it feels. Does she want it faster? Slower?
I've learned from porn, too, that slapping your c@ck on something (say, her vagina - she'll dig it) if you're building up to climax before you really want to will help you stay in the game longer. I wouldn't worry too much about that, though. Hell, if you *** before she does get her off with the other 'bases' available to you, clean up, and go for round 2! After that first orgasm your **** should be fairly desensitized and you should be able to hold out longer.
Rinse, repeat. :rockon:
Some tips: Your first time out isn't going to be your best, sorry pal. You might have a hard time getting it up (hey, we're not machines after all). If this happens to you, masturbate a little. Maybe go down on her as you do it (by now you're probably pretty capable of getting yourself hard with your hands), or talk her into masturbating for you (sorta kinky, and it'll tell you what part of her vagina's most sensitive, typically).
Also, lots and lots of foreplay. You've got to get her juices flowing, and foreplay will help. I'd have some lube and lots of condoms lying around for all of the "what if"s, though.
Hmm...what else? Ask her how it feels. Does she want it faster? Slower?
I've learned from porn, too, that slapping your c@ck on something (say, her vagina - she'll dig it) if you're building up to climax before you really want to will help you stay in the game longer. I wouldn't worry too much about that, though. Hell, if you *** before she does get her off with the other 'bases' available to you, clean up, and go for round 2! After that first orgasm your **** should be fairly desensitized and you should be able to hold out longer.
Rinse, repeat. :rockon:
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