Grover_mister
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well my gf and i want to have sex. she has had it before but i havent and i am ablosutley clueless lol. im not scared just nervous... tips anything plz lol
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just so suave
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haha djdan 
. if you both want to do it, then go for it, unless you feel pressured... then dont do it, wait until your ready.
when you do do it, use protection condoms are best contraception i think
. if you both want to do it, then go for it, unless you feel pressured... then dont do it, wait until your ready.when you do do it, use protection
condoms are best contraception i thinkGrover_mister
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well cna u give me some tips while im actually doing it to make it better for both of us. i dont wanna screw up lol
Yeah, when she says "right there! don't stop!" KEEP DOING WHATEVER YOU'RE DOING!
Some tips: Your first time out isn't going to be your best, sorry pal. You might have a hard time getting it up (hey, we're not machines after all). If this happens to you, masturbate a little. Maybe go down on her as you do it (by now you're probably pretty capable of getting yourself hard with your hands), or talk her into masturbating for you (sorta kinky, and it'll tell you what part of her vagina's most sensitive, typically).
Also, lots and lots of foreplay. You've got to get her juices flowing, and foreplay will help. I'd have some lube and lots of condoms lying around for all of the "what if"s, though.
Hmm...what else? Ask her how it feels. Does she want it faster? Slower?
I've learned from porn, too, that slapping your c@ck on something (say, her vagina - she'll dig it) if you're building up to climax before you really want to will help you stay in the game longer. I wouldn't worry too much about that, though. Hell, if you *** before she does get her off with the other 'bases' available to you, clean up, and go for round 2! After that first orgasm your **** should be fairly desensitized and you should be able to hold out longer.
Rinse, repeat. :rockon:
Some tips: Your first time out isn't going to be your best, sorry pal. You might have a hard time getting it up (hey, we're not machines after all). If this happens to you, masturbate a little. Maybe go down on her as you do it (by now you're probably pretty capable of getting yourself hard with your hands), or talk her into masturbating for you (sorta kinky, and it'll tell you what part of her vagina's most sensitive, typically).
Also, lots and lots of foreplay. You've got to get her juices flowing, and foreplay will help. I'd have some lube and lots of condoms lying around for all of the "what if"s, though.
Hmm...what else? Ask her how it feels. Does she want it faster? Slower?
I've learned from porn, too, that slapping your c@ck on something (say, her vagina - she'll dig it) if you're building up to climax before you really want to will help you stay in the game longer. I wouldn't worry too much about that, though. Hell, if you *** before she does get her off with the other 'bases' available to you, clean up, and go for round 2! After that first orgasm your **** should be fairly desensitized and you should be able to hold out longer.
Rinse, repeat. :rockon:
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