Grover_mister
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well my gf and i want to have sex. she has had it before but i havent and i am ablosutley clueless lol. im not scared just nervous... tips anything plz lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sex....
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
just so suave
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haha djdan 
. if you both want to do it, then go for it, unless you feel pressured... then dont do it, wait until your ready.
when you do do it, use protection condoms are best contraception i think
. if you both want to do it, then go for it, unless you feel pressured... then dont do it, wait until your ready.when you do do it, use protection
condoms are best contraception i thinkGrover_mister
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well cna u give me some tips while im actually doing it to make it better for both of us. i dont wanna screw up lol
Yeah, when she says "right there! don't stop!" KEEP DOING WHATEVER YOU'RE DOING!
Some tips: Your first time out isn't going to be your best, sorry pal. You might have a hard time getting it up (hey, we're not machines after all). If this happens to you, masturbate a little. Maybe go down on her as you do it (by now you're probably pretty capable of getting yourself hard with your hands), or talk her into masturbating for you (sorta kinky, and it'll tell you what part of her vagina's most sensitive, typically).
Also, lots and lots of foreplay. You've got to get her juices flowing, and foreplay will help. I'd have some lube and lots of condoms lying around for all of the "what if"s, though.
Hmm...what else? Ask her how it feels. Does she want it faster? Slower?
I've learned from porn, too, that slapping your c@ck on something (say, her vagina - she'll dig it) if you're building up to climax before you really want to will help you stay in the game longer. I wouldn't worry too much about that, though. Hell, if you *** before she does get her off with the other 'bases' available to you, clean up, and go for round 2! After that first orgasm your **** should be fairly desensitized and you should be able to hold out longer.
Rinse, repeat. :rockon:
Some tips: Your first time out isn't going to be your best, sorry pal. You might have a hard time getting it up (hey, we're not machines after all). If this happens to you, masturbate a little. Maybe go down on her as you do it (by now you're probably pretty capable of getting yourself hard with your hands), or talk her into masturbating for you (sorta kinky, and it'll tell you what part of her vagina's most sensitive, typically).
Also, lots and lots of foreplay. You've got to get her juices flowing, and foreplay will help. I'd have some lube and lots of condoms lying around for all of the "what if"s, though.
Hmm...what else? Ask her how it feels. Does she want it faster? Slower?
I've learned from porn, too, that slapping your c@ck on something (say, her vagina - she'll dig it) if you're building up to climax before you really want to will help you stay in the game longer. I wouldn't worry too much about that, though. Hell, if you *** before she does get her off with the other 'bases' available to you, clean up, and go for round 2! After that first orgasm your **** should be fairly desensitized and you should be able to hold out longer.
Rinse, repeat. :rockon:
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