Don The Magic Juan
Don Juan
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If you were in a position where you could get a oral sex without having to have sex or you could have the sex which would you take and why?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sex, hands down. I think bl0wjobs are overrated. A tight p*ssy feels 10x better than a girl's mouth in my opinion, plus they aren't going to be screaming and calling our your name if your d*ck is in their mouth.Don The Magic Juan said:If you were in a position where you could get a oral sex without having to have sex or you could have the sex which would you take and why?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Haha, I hope the pun was intended.penkitten said:usually oral is a foreplay or sex. it comes hand in hand.
Deus ex Pianoforte said:I'd take blow jobs, no doubt about it. If I could choose getting head once every 30 days or having sex every day for the rest of my life, I'd choose the head.
Much less risk of STD's, much cleaner, much easier to accomplish in public or on the road, and way more intense overall experience. Vaginal sex is for when you can't score the BJ.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Man, there are plenty times where the woman just doesn't deserve sexin'; be it due to her behavior, her stank, illness, whatever.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Dude. Come on.![]()
No, I'm not out of shape. I'm 140 pounds and 5 foot 10. It's because of the movements I can't get a full breath in, it's like a broken breath and I start falling behind on mt breathing quickly. Then plus doesn't it hurt your hips? It hurts mine.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Because I can just sit there and get the oral sex without having to put in any effort. If you've never stood with your hands on your hips with a chick on her knees in front of you servicing you with everything she's got, well...you're just letting the best in life pass you by.
Take short, quick breaths. Are you out of shape or something?
Doggystyle is less effort? She's not really bony it's just the movements hurt my hips after awhile.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Try doggystyle. Less effort, and you can go more at your own pace. If your hips hurt, I'm thinking she's pretty bony?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
say what? I beg to differ.Vulpine said:.
Same with anal and three-ways.
WAAAAAY over rated.
Come-on man, lets be serious here. No hate ok? OK.... how is this NOT gay?Willis said:I had oral and sex a few times and i dont like either it(and it was with different girls)
and both oral and intercourse wasnt that enjoyable it kinda killed my motivation 2 go after women. Now im indifferent towards them, and could care less if they dig me or not. so i dont pull any *****es at all
and when i had sex i was like "No,this isntwhat all the fuss is about, this sucks"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.