Don The Magic Juan
Don Juan
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If you were in a position where you could get a oral sex without having to have sex or you could have the sex which would you take and why?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sex, hands down. I think bl0wjobs are overrated. A tight p*ssy feels 10x better than a girl's mouth in my opinion, plus they aren't going to be screaming and calling our your name if your d*ck is in their mouth.Don The Magic Juan said:If you were in a position where you could get a oral sex without having to have sex or you could have the sex which would you take and why?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Haha, I hope the pun was intended.penkitten said:usually oral is a foreplay or sex. it comes hand in hand.
Deus ex Pianoforte said:I'd take blow jobs, no doubt about it. If I could choose getting head once every 30 days or having sex every day for the rest of my life, I'd choose the head.
Much less risk of STD's, much cleaner, much easier to accomplish in public or on the road, and way more intense overall experience. Vaginal sex is for when you can't score the BJ.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Man, there are plenty times where the woman just doesn't deserve sexin'; be it due to her behavior, her stank, illness, whatever.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Dude. Come on.![]()
No, I'm not out of shape. I'm 140 pounds and 5 foot 10. It's because of the movements I can't get a full breath in, it's like a broken breath and I start falling behind on mt breathing quickly. Then plus doesn't it hurt your hips? It hurts mine.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Because I can just sit there and get the oral sex without having to put in any effort. If you've never stood with your hands on your hips with a chick on her knees in front of you servicing you with everything she's got, well...you're just letting the best in life pass you by.
Take short, quick breaths. Are you out of shape or something?
Doggystyle is less effort? She's not really bony it's just the movements hurt my hips after awhile.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Try doggystyle. Less effort, and you can go more at your own pace. If your hips hurt, I'm thinking she's pretty bony?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
say what? I beg to differ.Vulpine said:.
Same with anal and three-ways.
WAAAAAY over rated.
Come-on man, lets be serious here. No hate ok? OK.... how is this NOT gay?Willis said:I had oral and sex a few times and i dont like either it(and it was with different girls)
and both oral and intercourse wasnt that enjoyable it kinda killed my motivation 2 go after women. Now im indifferent towards them, and could care less if they dig me or not. so i dont pull any *****es at all
and when i had sex i was like "No,this isntwhat all the fuss is about, this sucks"
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.