"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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-One dating guru says to hold off as long as you can on sex with a chick if you're diggin her and she may have LTR potential because then you're not giving into her and you're being more selective, choosing her, unsure if you want to hang with her, etc.

-Another dating guru says bang her as soon as you can because it releases chemical in her brain, etc.

I have a chick in tow right now, had 2 dates, keeps advancing, she gave me a HUGE massage and LOVES to give and receive affection. All around fun, hot, smart, decent chick--a 1/100 type.

Wondering if I should play hard to get and hold off F'ing her to build things up more OR nail her ASAP.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Never wait, create opportunities to hit it as soon as possible. There always has to be escalation to sex for every date and once she's ready you cannot escalate any further without actually having sex. If you don't she'll lose her attraction fast.

Also don't develop oneitis for someone you've only dated twice! All women have the capability to turn into a major witch at the snap of a finger and make your life hell.
 
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Do you want a woman's perspective on this?
 
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Never wait. It gives you more a chance to fvck up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you dont need a female perspective, you are already using it as we speak.

It is women who withhold sex because they are afraid that is all they have to offer or keep men interested. You are a man, have sex n have fun. IF you have sex with her this week instead of next week and it is a make or break factor, than perhaps you should be evaluating the quality of your girls instead of the difference in days
 
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