"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex Type Thing

Dash Riprock

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-One dating guru says to hold off as long as you can on sex with a chick if you're diggin her and she may have LTR potential because then you're not giving into her and you're being more selective, choosing her, unsure if you want to hang with her, etc.

-Another dating guru says bang her as soon as you can because it releases chemical in her brain, etc.

I have a chick in tow right now, had 2 dates, keeps advancing, she gave me a HUGE massage and LOVES to give and receive affection. All around fun, hot, smart, decent chick--a 1/100 type.

Wondering if I should play hard to get and hold off F'ing her to build things up more OR nail her ASAP.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kratosnofear

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Never wait, create opportunities to hit it as soon as possible. There always has to be escalation to sex for every date and once she's ready you cannot escalate any further without actually having sex. If you don't she'll lose her attraction fast.

Also don't develop oneitis for someone you've only dated twice! All women have the capability to turn into a major witch at the snap of a finger and make your life hell.
 

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Do you want a woman's perspective on this?
 

theunflushables

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Never wait. It gives you more a chance to fvck up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Microphone Fiend

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you dont need a female perspective, you are already using it as we speak.

It is women who withhold sex because they are afraid that is all they have to offer or keep men interested. You are a man, have sex n have fun. IF you have sex with her this week instead of next week and it is a make or break factor, than perhaps you should be evaluating the quality of your girls instead of the difference in days
 
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