"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sex Type Thing

Dash Riprock

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-One dating guru says to hold off as long as you can on sex with a chick if you're diggin her and she may have LTR potential because then you're not giving into her and you're being more selective, choosing her, unsure if you want to hang with her, etc.

-Another dating guru says bang her as soon as you can because it releases chemical in her brain, etc.

I have a chick in tow right now, had 2 dates, keeps advancing, she gave me a HUGE massage and LOVES to give and receive affection. All around fun, hot, smart, decent chick--a 1/100 type.

Wondering if I should play hard to get and hold off F'ing her to build things up more OR nail her ASAP.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kratosnofear

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Never wait, create opportunities to hit it as soon as possible. There always has to be escalation to sex for every date and once she's ready you cannot escalate any further without actually having sex. If you don't she'll lose her attraction fast.

Also don't develop oneitis for someone you've only dated twice! All women have the capability to turn into a major witch at the snap of a finger and make your life hell.
 

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Do you want a woman's perspective on this?
 

theunflushables

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Never wait. It gives you more a chance to fvck up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Microphone Fiend

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you dont need a female perspective, you are already using it as we speak.

It is women who withhold sex because they are afraid that is all they have to offer or keep men interested. You are a man, have sex n have fun. IF you have sex with her this week instead of next week and it is a make or break factor, than perhaps you should be evaluating the quality of your girls instead of the difference in days
 
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