"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SamMalone

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There isn't much in the actualy DJ Bible about sex, mostly only how to get a girl. Lets discuss it here.

My first questions is when a girl tells you "no" intitially, do you guys keep going? I usually didn't but my last girlfriend said she only gets off when she tells the guy no and he keeps going for her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Karmic Law #23 - Never listen to what a woman says. ALWAYS hear what her body language is saying.
What you're referring to is the chase. This is the emotional roller coaster women ride in order to feed their insatiable thirst for attention.

Unfortunately there is a never ending stream of boys who will gladly fill her cup. When she's saying to you, "No, no, I-I can't. It's too soon." and her hand is doing a pogo on your meatstick, which are you going to focus on?
 

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The best breakdown on this topic I've seen done is from David DeAngelo on his sexual communication series. His stuff on overcoming last minute resistance is mandatory listening. Google it up.
 

War Against Betaism

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I've never understood what to do in this situation and then after experiencing it and remembering David DeAngelo's "2 steps forward, 1 step back" it all clicked. When she says no she really means she's not horny enough so you just have to make her horny, you do this by teasing her or making her excited like kissing her neck, breathing into her ear, or grabbing her ass (I just found out recently that the nerves on the ass are actually connected to a girl's cl1t).
 

SamMalone

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hmmm what about in the morning when they put their hand on your "meatsick" and then when you try to start something they say no? Should I just go slower and heat her up more?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oakraiderz2

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SamMalone said:
hmmm what about in the morning when they put their hand on your "meatsick" and then when you try to start something they say no? Should I just go slower and heat her up more?
Put it on her stomach or her side...gives love da meatstick. Or, you could start touching her goods.

When i first had sex with my current gf she was on top and i tried to put it in but she wasnt having it and gave me some head. Then i got on top and started tapping and rubbing my meatstick on her goodies. And then i was in there like swimwear. The next day she was all embarresed cause she said she doesnt do stuff like that the first time she hangs out with people.
 

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Looked up DeAngelo's two steps foward one back yesterday and got the girl going big time. Got some last night AND this morning. Can't believe how wrong I was doing it.

Thanks SoSuave!
 
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