"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamMalone

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There isn't much in the actualy DJ Bible about sex, mostly only how to get a girl. Lets discuss it here.

My first questions is when a girl tells you "no" intitially, do you guys keep going? I usually didn't but my last girlfriend said she only gets off when she tells the guy no and he keeps going for her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Karmic Law #23 - Never listen to what a woman says. ALWAYS hear what her body language is saying.
What you're referring to is the chase. This is the emotional roller coaster women ride in order to feed their insatiable thirst for attention.

Unfortunately there is a never ending stream of boys who will gladly fill her cup. When she's saying to you, "No, no, I-I can't. It's too soon." and her hand is doing a pogo on your meatstick, which are you going to focus on?
 

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The best breakdown on this topic I've seen done is from David DeAngelo on his sexual communication series. His stuff on overcoming last minute resistance is mandatory listening. Google it up.
 

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I've never understood what to do in this situation and then after experiencing it and remembering David DeAngelo's "2 steps forward, 1 step back" it all clicked. When she says no she really means she's not horny enough so you just have to make her horny, you do this by teasing her or making her excited like kissing her neck, breathing into her ear, or grabbing her ass (I just found out recently that the nerves on the ass are actually connected to a girl's cl1t).
 

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hmmm what about in the morning when they put their hand on your "meatsick" and then when you try to start something they say no? Should I just go slower and heat her up more?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamMalone said:
hmmm what about in the morning when they put their hand on your "meatsick" and then when you try to start something they say no? Should I just go slower and heat her up more?
Put it on her stomach or her side...gives love da meatstick. Or, you could start touching her goods.

When i first had sex with my current gf she was on top and i tried to put it in but she wasnt having it and gave me some head. Then i got on top and started tapping and rubbing my meatstick on her goodies. And then i was in there like swimwear. The next day she was all embarresed cause she said she doesnt do stuff like that the first time she hangs out with people.
 

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Looked up DeAngelo's two steps foward one back yesterday and got the girl going big time. Got some last night AND this morning. Can't believe how wrong I was doing it.

Thanks SoSuave!
 
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