Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Swede54

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This is kinda a followup to my other post. But if you have sex with a girl when she just starts her period, and she continues to have her period normally for the rest of the duration, thats a good sign of not being pregnant correct?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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If you ABSOLUTELY don't want to get her pregant, use birth control. I can't stress this enough to you guys who are trying to "get around" everything. A fvcking condom (which is $5 for a box of 12) will save you TONS of money in child support payments.
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by Desdinova
If you ABSOLUTELY don't want to get her pregant, use birth control. I can't stress this enough to you guys who are trying to "get around" everything. A fvcking condom (which is $5 for a box of 12) will save you TONS of money in child support payments.

i did use a condom, but after i wiped the jizz off she tried to put it in again but didnt get it in.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
if you have sex with a girl when she just starts her period, and she continues to have her period normally for the rest of the duration, thats a good sign of not being pregnant correct?
A lot of people think that if a girl has sex during her period, she can't get pregnant. But it is possible for a girl to get pregnant while she is bleeding. There are a couple of reasons why this can happen:

  • Not all vaginal bleeding is the result of a menstrual period. Sometimes a girl will have a small amount of vaginal bleeding at the time of ovulation - the time when she is most fertile. During ovulation, an egg is released from one of the ovaries and travels down a fallopian tube to the uterus. It's common for girls who are ovulating to have some vaginal bleeding that can be mistaken for a period.
  • Sometimes ovulation can occur before the bleeding from a girl's period has stopped, or it may occur within a few days after her period is over. Sperm can fertilize an egg for up to 3 days after ejaculation. So in both cases, having sex before the period is finished can result in pregnancy.
Having unprotected sex at any time, including when you're bleeding, is very risky. Along with the risk of becoming pregnant, there is also a risk of getting a sexually transmitted disease (STD), such as chlamydia, genital warts, or HIV. The only surefire way to prevent pregnancy and STDs is abstinence. If you do have sex, use a condom every time to protect against STDs. And talk to your doctor about additional forms of contraception.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/sex_during_period.html
Google is your friend.

AE.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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when i was pregnant with my last child , i had 2 normal periods and did not know i was pregnant.
when i finally found out, i thought i was 2 weeks and was 10 weeks.

crazy huh
 
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