"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Swede54

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This is kinda a followup to my other post. But if you have sex with a girl when she just starts her period, and she continues to have her period normally for the rest of the duration, thats a good sign of not being pregnant correct?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you ABSOLUTELY don't want to get her pregant, use birth control. I can't stress this enough to you guys who are trying to "get around" everything. A fvcking condom (which is $5 for a box of 12) will save you TONS of money in child support payments.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
If you ABSOLUTELY don't want to get her pregant, use birth control. I can't stress this enough to you guys who are trying to "get around" everything. A fvcking condom (which is $5 for a box of 12) will save you TONS of money in child support payments.

i did use a condom, but after i wiped the jizz off she tried to put it in again but didnt get it in.
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
if you have sex with a girl when she just starts her period, and she continues to have her period normally for the rest of the duration, thats a good sign of not being pregnant correct?
A lot of people think that if a girl has sex during her period, she can't get pregnant. But it is possible for a girl to get pregnant while she is bleeding. There are a couple of reasons why this can happen:

  • Not all vaginal bleeding is the result of a menstrual period. Sometimes a girl will have a small amount of vaginal bleeding at the time of ovulation - the time when she is most fertile. During ovulation, an egg is released from one of the ovaries and travels down a fallopian tube to the uterus. It's common for girls who are ovulating to have some vaginal bleeding that can be mistaken for a period.
  • Sometimes ovulation can occur before the bleeding from a girl's period has stopped, or it may occur within a few days after her period is over. Sperm can fertilize an egg for up to 3 days after ejaculation. So in both cases, having sex before the period is finished can result in pregnancy.
Having unprotected sex at any time, including when you're bleeding, is very risky. Along with the risk of becoming pregnant, there is also a risk of getting a sexually transmitted disease (STD), such as chlamydia, genital warts, or HIV. The only surefire way to prevent pregnancy and STDs is abstinence. If you do have sex, use a condom every time to protect against STDs. And talk to your doctor about additional forms of contraception.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/sex_during_period.html
Google is your friend.

AE.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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when i was pregnant with my last child , i had 2 normal periods and did not know i was pregnant.
when i finally found out, i thought i was 2 weeks and was 10 weeks.

crazy huh
 
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