"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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big_jeffry

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ok, how do i get her to have sex?

she's given me multiple handjobs and I think we are ready for the next level. I'm not sure if the girl has morals (meaning she has to wait) or not. So, my question is what can I say to her or do to convince her that the time is right?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ace of Flames

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Either talk to her about it and see how she feels, or next time you guys are getting hot and heavy, just start doing it and if she doesn't stop you, there you go.
 

The Sperminator

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I wouldn't talk to her about it I would just go for the sex. She either will let you or won't.
 

amoka

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Take the words of the above two posts. Women generally want someone to put the blame on after having sex so it is almost alway not a good idea to talk woman into having sex. She wont say "yes, let's do it". Since she already gives you hand job, you can escalate to a higher level.
 

kdnash82

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I say when she's down there helping you out, before you blow your load, return the favor. Get down there and put that tongue to work.

At this point, you're both already naked. Lay on top and slowly guide yourself in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LT1

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Get her drunk, this will make it easier.
 

WaterTiger

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Use this famous line:

"Nice shoes, wanna fukc?"
 

Create Reality

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everyone knows a woman's shoes are her most precious asset. you can't just belittle the subject matter like that, following it with "wanna fukc?" :rolleyes:
 
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