"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sex question...

big_jeffry

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ok, how do i get her to have sex?

she's given me multiple handjobs and I think we are ready for the next level. I'm not sure if the girl has morals (meaning she has to wait) or not. So, my question is what can I say to her or do to convince her that the time is right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ace of Flames

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Either talk to her about it and see how she feels, or next time you guys are getting hot and heavy, just start doing it and if she doesn't stop you, there you go.
 

The Sperminator

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I wouldn't talk to her about it I would just go for the sex. She either will let you or won't.
 

amoka

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Take the words of the above two posts. Women generally want someone to put the blame on after having sex so it is almost alway not a good idea to talk woman into having sex. She wont say "yes, let's do it". Since she already gives you hand job, you can escalate to a higher level.
 

kdnash82

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I say when she's down there helping you out, before you blow your load, return the favor. Get down there and put that tongue to work.

At this point, you're both already naked. Lay on top and slowly guide yourself in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LT1

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Get her drunk, this will make it easier.
 

WaterTiger

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Use this famous line:

"Nice shoes, wanna fukc?"
 

Create Reality

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everyone knows a woman's shoes are her most precious asset. you can't just belittle the subject matter like that, following it with "wanna fukc?" :rolleyes:
 
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