"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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big_jeffry

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ok, how do i get her to have sex?

she's given me multiple handjobs and I think we are ready for the next level. I'm not sure if the girl has morals (meaning she has to wait) or not. So, my question is what can I say to her or do to convince her that the time is right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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Either talk to her about it and see how she feels, or next time you guys are getting hot and heavy, just start doing it and if she doesn't stop you, there you go.
 

The Sperminator

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I wouldn't talk to her about it I would just go for the sex. She either will let you or won't.
 

amoka

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Take the words of the above two posts. Women generally want someone to put the blame on after having sex so it is almost alway not a good idea to talk woman into having sex. She wont say "yes, let's do it". Since she already gives you hand job, you can escalate to a higher level.
 

kdnash82

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I say when she's down there helping you out, before you blow your load, return the favor. Get down there and put that tongue to work.

At this point, you're both already naked. Lay on top and slowly guide yourself in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LT1

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Get her drunk, this will make it easier.
 

WaterTiger

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Use this famous line:

"Nice shoes, wanna fukc?"
 

Create Reality

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everyone knows a woman's shoes are her most precious asset. you can't just belittle the subject matter like that, following it with "wanna fukc?" :rolleyes:
 
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