"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sex question...

big_jeffry

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ok, how do i get her to have sex?

she's given me multiple handjobs and I think we are ready for the next level. I'm not sure if the girl has morals (meaning she has to wait) or not. So, my question is what can I say to her or do to convince her that the time is right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ace of Flames

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Either talk to her about it and see how she feels, or next time you guys are getting hot and heavy, just start doing it and if she doesn't stop you, there you go.
 

The Sperminator

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I wouldn't talk to her about it I would just go for the sex. She either will let you or won't.
 

amoka

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Take the words of the above two posts. Women generally want someone to put the blame on after having sex so it is almost alway not a good idea to talk woman into having sex. She wont say "yes, let's do it". Since she already gives you hand job, you can escalate to a higher level.
 

kdnash82

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I say when she's down there helping you out, before you blow your load, return the favor. Get down there and put that tongue to work.

At this point, you're both already naked. Lay on top and slowly guide yourself in.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LT1

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Get her drunk, this will make it easier.
 

WaterTiger

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Use this famous line:

"Nice shoes, wanna fukc?"
 

Create Reality

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everyone knows a woman's shoes are her most precious asset. you can't just belittle the subject matter like that, following it with "wanna fukc?" :rolleyes:
 
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