"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sex question: difficulty orgasming...

The_Reaper

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I haven't been in a sexual relationship in a while and so I became used to masturabation as a stimulus to orgasm. This was great for a while... but I'm now with a girlfriend, and when we have sex or oral sex etc, I just cannot come! This probably has a lot to do with the familiarity of masturbation and porn as a means to orgasm. I'm definitely giving up choking the chicken, but is there anything else I can do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DarkLight

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Um... thank god, and fvck the hell out of her all nightlong?
 

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I'm kinda in the same predicament. Even when I jerk off to a nice porn it takes me a lot of time. I found that I now have to use lubricant or I get blisters from all the friction. It's a good thing, a lot can be done. :)
 

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Definately no more spanking the yoghurt spitter, good move there. Don't concerntrate on the act of blowing your load while doing it, undue pressure will often make the problem worse. Just roll with it, and look at it positively, she has ample opportunity to get off, in multiples :up:

Keep at it buddy, you'll get back the groove. Just focus on the positives.
 

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Are you taking any antideppresants? One of the side effects of most anti-depressants is difficulty to achieve orgasm. If you aren't on medication, it could be a mental thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DarkLight

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Sh!t... if its a mental thing, examine whats goin up there, so a brutha can adapt your strategy in a time of need. lol
 

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I could bang her for hours on end, that's no prob, but how much can she take before she dries up?
 

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The_Reaper said:
I haven't been in a sexual relationship in a while and so I became used to masturabation as a stimulus to orgasm. This was great for a while... but I'm now with a girlfriend, and when we have sex or oral sex etc, I just cannot come! This probably has a lot to do with the familiarity of masturbation and porn as a means to orgasm. I'm definitely giving up choking the chicken, but is there anything else I can do?
Dude don't worry. Same thing happened to me. too used to the hand or something. just have more sex. and masturbate less. you'll get more used to the feeling.

i know what you mean man, i could **** the girl for hours on end. like 3 hours. both of us got hella tired and she always kept getting dry. but oh boy when i came, i came so ****in hard. but 3 hours is a little long heh.
 
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