"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The_Reaper

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I haven't been in a sexual relationship in a while and so I became used to masturabation as a stimulus to orgasm. This was great for a while... but I'm now with a girlfriend, and when we have sex or oral sex etc, I just cannot come! This probably has a lot to do with the familiarity of masturbation and porn as a means to orgasm. I'm definitely giving up choking the chicken, but is there anything else I can do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Um... thank god, and fvck the hell out of her all nightlong?
 

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I'm kinda in the same predicament. Even when I jerk off to a nice porn it takes me a lot of time. I found that I now have to use lubricant or I get blisters from all the friction. It's a good thing, a lot can be done. :)
 

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Definately no more spanking the yoghurt spitter, good move there. Don't concerntrate on the act of blowing your load while doing it, undue pressure will often make the problem worse. Just roll with it, and look at it positively, she has ample opportunity to get off, in multiples :up:

Keep at it buddy, you'll get back the groove. Just focus on the positives.
 

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Are you taking any antideppresants? One of the side effects of most anti-depressants is difficulty to achieve orgasm. If you aren't on medication, it could be a mental thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DarkLight

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Sh!t... if its a mental thing, examine whats goin up there, so a brutha can adapt your strategy in a time of need. lol
 

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I could bang her for hours on end, that's no prob, but how much can she take before she dries up?
 

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The_Reaper said:
I haven't been in a sexual relationship in a while and so I became used to masturabation as a stimulus to orgasm. This was great for a while... but I'm now with a girlfriend, and when we have sex or oral sex etc, I just cannot come! This probably has a lot to do with the familiarity of masturbation and porn as a means to orgasm. I'm definitely giving up choking the chicken, but is there anything else I can do?
Dude don't worry. Same thing happened to me. too used to the hand or something. just have more sex. and masturbate less. you'll get more used to the feeling.

i know what you mean man, i could **** the girl for hours on end. like 3 hours. both of us got hella tired and she always kept getting dry. but oh boy when i came, i came so ****in hard. but 3 hours is a little long heh.
 
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