Sex question: difficulty orgasming...

[The_Reaper]

I haven't been in a sexual relationship in a while and so I became used to masturabation as a stimulus to orgasm. This was great for a while... but I'm now with a girlfriend, and when we have sex or oral sex etc, I just cannot come! This probably has a lot to do with the familiarity of masturbation and porn as a means to orgasm. I'm definitely giving up choking the chicken, but is there anything else I can do?

 

[DarkLight]

Um... thank god, and fvck the hell out of her all nightlong?

 

[unorthodox]

I'm kinda in the same predicament. Even when I jerk off to a nice porn it takes me a lot of time. I found that I now have to use lubricant or I get blisters from all the friction. It's a good thing, a lot can be done.

 

[KillaCam]

Definately no more spanking the yoghurt spitter, good move there. Don't concerntrate on the act of blowing your load while doing it, undue pressure will often make the problem worse. Just roll with it, and look at it positively, she has ample opportunity to get off, in multiples

Keep at it buddy, you'll get back the groove. Just focus on the positives.

 

[Viper423]

Are you taking any antideppresants? One of the side effects of most anti-depressants is difficulty to achieve orgasm. If you aren't on medication, it could be a mental thing.

 

[DarkLight]

Sh!t... if its a mental thing, examine whats goin up there, so a brutha can adapt your strategy in a time of need. lol

 

[The_Reaper]

I could bang her for hours on end, that's no prob, but how much can she take before she dries up?

 

[GSSH]

I haven't been in a sexual relationship in a while and so I became used to masturabation as a stimulus to orgasm. This was great for a while... but I'm now with a girlfriend, and when we have sex or oral sex etc, I just cannot come! This probably has a lot to do with the familiarity of masturbation and porn as a means to orgasm. I'm definitely giving up choking the chicken, but is there anything else I can do?

Dude don't worry. Same thing happened to me. too used to the hand or something. just have more sex. and masturbate less. you'll get more used to the feeling.

i know what you mean man, i could **** the girl for hours on end. like 3 hours. both of us got hella tired and she always kept getting dry. but oh boy when i came, i came so ****in hard. but 3 hours is a little long heh.