"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sex pushed away????

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I'm in a relationship with a girl who is a Virgin. she was ready im ready to change it and we a talk about it everyday. Well friday she was suppose to come over my place and we was going to kick it at night watch a movie and i was suppose to change her views of life lol. But she told me her friends talked her out of it and she doesn't want to do it no more because they claim she will regret it and all that bull****. What do i say next and how do i fix this??? it don't have to be friday as long as i get her back comfortable to give it up its good with me.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How old are you?

You don't talk about sex and plan a big date for it. It puts too much pressure on you to perform and her to enjoy it, which means you'll get performance anxiety and she'll be worrying.

Just invite her over your place one evening, make sure everything is nice and comfortable, and start making out with her. Slowly escalate the touching. Then, go down on her, do it until she cvms, and then have sex with her.

If she shows resistance, slow down and take a step back.

Two steps forward, one back.
 
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appreciate it. I am over doing the whole situation which maybe the reason she talked it out with others. I was with her today unexpected and she was a little bit loose but you can tell that her friends conversation was on her mind.
 
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