"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sex pushed away????

Dearl

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I'm in a relationship with a girl who is a Virgin. she was ready im ready to change it and we a talk about it everyday. Well friday she was suppose to come over my place and we was going to kick it at night watch a movie and i was suppose to change her views of life lol. But she told me her friends talked her out of it and she doesn't want to do it no more because they claim she will regret it and all that bull****. What do i say next and how do i fix this??? it don't have to be friday as long as i get her back comfortable to give it up its good with me.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How old are you?

You don't talk about sex and plan a big date for it. It puts too much pressure on you to perform and her to enjoy it, which means you'll get performance anxiety and she'll be worrying.

Just invite her over your place one evening, make sure everything is nice and comfortable, and start making out with her. Slowly escalate the touching. Then, go down on her, do it until she cvms, and then have sex with her.

If she shows resistance, slow down and take a step back.

Two steps forward, one back.
 

Dearl

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appreciate it. I am over doing the whole situation which maybe the reason she talked it out with others. I was with her today unexpected and she was a little bit loose but you can tell that her friends conversation was on her mind.
 
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