"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sex pushed away????

Dearl

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I'm in a relationship with a girl who is a Virgin. she was ready im ready to change it and we a talk about it everyday. Well friday she was suppose to come over my place and we was going to kick it at night watch a movie and i was suppose to change her views of life lol. But she told me her friends talked her out of it and she doesn't want to do it no more because they claim she will regret it and all that bull****. What do i say next and how do i fix this??? it don't have to be friday as long as i get her back comfortable to give it up its good with me.

Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How old are you?

You don't talk about sex and plan a big date for it. It puts too much pressure on you to perform and her to enjoy it, which means you'll get performance anxiety and she'll be worrying.

Just invite her over your place one evening, make sure everything is nice and comfortable, and start making out with her. Slowly escalate the touching. Then, go down on her, do it until she cvms, and then have sex with her.

If she shows resistance, slow down and take a step back.

Two steps forward, one back.
 

Dearl

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appreciate it. I am over doing the whole situation which maybe the reason she talked it out with others. I was with her today unexpected and she was a little bit loose but you can tell that her friends conversation was on her mind.
 
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