"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,
I know this question has been asked before but I couldn't find the thread. Me and this girl have had sex twice already but either time I couldn't come. She got off both times but I couldn't. Anybody got any suggestions for me???? Thanks for the help....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Normally this happens to guys when they are with a new partner, and therefore more nervous than they usually would be. If you couldn't get off but she did, don't worry too much about it. Just calm down a little (if that is indeed your problem) and you should be right next time.
 
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Hey thanks for the info. I'm not too worried about myself but how do I make her not feel bad for not making me come? Right now she keeps saying how we shouldn't have sex because I don't enjoy it which is totally wrong. I do enjoy but I just can't get off. Anybody dealt with a similar situation??? Thanks.....
 
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i recently posted a similar problem. But is whenever i drink too much, that i cant leave her with a receipt.

Are you drunk. Or taking any medicine?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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