"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gray_fox_9

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Hey guys,
I know this question has been asked before but I couldn't find the thread. Me and this girl have had sex twice already but either time I couldn't come. She got off both times but I couldn't. Anybody got any suggestions for me???? Thanks for the help....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Normally this happens to guys when they are with a new partner, and therefore more nervous than they usually would be. If you couldn't get off but she did, don't worry too much about it. Just calm down a little (if that is indeed your problem) and you should be right next time.
 

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Hey thanks for the info. I'm not too worried about myself but how do I make her not feel bad for not making me come? Right now she keeps saying how we shouldn't have sex because I don't enjoy it which is totally wrong. I do enjoy but I just can't get off. Anybody dealt with a similar situation??? Thanks.....
 

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i recently posted a similar problem. But is whenever i drink too much, that i cant leave her with a receipt.

Are you drunk. Or taking any medicine?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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