"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,
I know this question has been asked before but I couldn't find the thread. Me and this girl have had sex twice already but either time I couldn't come. She got off both times but I couldn't. Anybody got any suggestions for me???? Thanks for the help....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Normally this happens to guys when they are with a new partner, and therefore more nervous than they usually would be. If you couldn't get off but she did, don't worry too much about it. Just calm down a little (if that is indeed your problem) and you should be right next time.
 
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Hey thanks for the info. I'm not too worried about myself but how do I make her not feel bad for not making me come? Right now she keeps saying how we shouldn't have sex because I don't enjoy it which is totally wrong. I do enjoy but I just can't get off. Anybody dealt with a similar situation??? Thanks.....
 
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i recently posted a similar problem. But is whenever i drink too much, that i cant leave her with a receipt.

Are you drunk. Or taking any medicine?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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