"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey guys,
I know this question has been asked before but I couldn't find the thread. Me and this girl have had sex twice already but either time I couldn't come. She got off both times but I couldn't. Anybody got any suggestions for me???? Thanks for the help....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Normally this happens to guys when they are with a new partner, and therefore more nervous than they usually would be. If you couldn't get off but she did, don't worry too much about it. Just calm down a little (if that is indeed your problem) and you should be right next time.
 
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Hey thanks for the info. I'm not too worried about myself but how do I make her not feel bad for not making me come? Right now she keeps saying how we shouldn't have sex because I don't enjoy it which is totally wrong. I do enjoy but I just can't get off. Anybody dealt with a similar situation??? Thanks.....
 
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i recently posted a similar problem. But is whenever i drink too much, that i cant leave her with a receipt.

Are you drunk. Or taking any medicine?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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